Bradley Method Class Reunion...sort of!

Before O was born, J and I talked about the possibilities related to prenatal classes in and around Saskatoon. The only option that we knew about at the time was the class in the Saskatoon Health Region, which makes room for several pregnant couples, to talk about pregnancy and child birth, or should I say, the medicalization of child birth. Yea, needless to say, J and I were not interested at all. Upon talking with our midwife, we were presented with a couple other options: hypnobirthing and the bradley method. In short, hypnobirthing is a sort of self-induced hypnosis method for the women, while the Bradley Method is all about Natural Childbirth, but has a huge, "coach" component to it. The latter interested me because I always knew I would be invested in fatherhood from the very moment the stick had the plus sign on it. Being the geek that I am, I delved into the research, and even read the book "Husband-Coached Childbirth", by Robert Bradley, from cover-to-cover. The book does a great job of explaining the method, but what was the most amazing experience I have had, next to the birth of my son, was taking part in the classes in Saskatoon. Our instructor, and our other classmates, became our friends, and we are forever greatful to CS for taking the time each week, for ten weeks, to prepare us for the final part of our journey.

On that note, last night J and I opened our house up to these friends we've made for a bit of a refresher on Dr. Bradley's methods. In our class in 2010, there were 9 couples, of those 5 of us are expecting children again, 3 in December, 1 in January and 1 in March! CS told us that in all her years, she has never had this many from the same class, expecting again, so close in age, again. We shared food, experiences and got to see all our children play together last night. CS gave us the refresher she thought we needed, and most of us think that we are ready to take on birth number two! If you ever get the opportunity, take some time to learn about natural childbirth, and research some alternatives to traditional, hospital prenatal classes. I am confident that if you take part in a Bradley Method class, you will have a new appreciation for yourself, your partner, and your child.

Trust birth,
B

Getting Close

Things are truly getting close for J and I, as we approach thefinal weeks of our pregnancy. The single digit countdown for J to be finished work started a few weeks ago. Finally, she has only 3 shifts left this weekend. Then, the nesting will begin. I am happy to say that the nursery is ready to go, diapers are stocked, and all things getting ready for newborn seem to be a-go.

Having a newborn in the winter will definitely be a new experience for J and I. O was born at the end of April, with some slushy, wet snow on his birth day. But then the warm weather began. This time around, we'll be right in the wrath of Old Man Winter when baby girl arrives. We are also, right in the middle of getting things ready for Christmas. Gifts for O and baby girl are bought, and J and I are making lists for eachother, of which we'll buy one item for eachother from. We've decided to stay at home this year for Christmas, no matter when Baby Girl decides to make her grand entrance. We'll definitely have to not only get used to a newborn again, but O can be a bit of a fun handful when we go somewhere.

All in all, things since I last chatted with you all are pretty good. O is crazy fun as ever, and J is glowing in the last few weeks of her pregnancy. Fatherhood is truly an amazing journey, one that I am forever greatful to be experiencing.

Until next time everyone, trust birth!

B

It’s been a while…

Wow, I truly did not realize how long it has been since I have written! Laying in bed the other night, my always lovely, very pregnant wife asked me when my last post was. My reply. I don’t know. So, I thought I’d log in and check it out. Yowzer! August 22^nd, 2011! I truly could not ask for more in my life these days, and am ever ecstatic that in a few short weeks we are about to welcome our newest addition, a baby girl. Yep, the EDD is creeping ever close! With O, we were two weeks early, and the labour was about 6 hours (of long, hard labour for J). At our midwife appointment (we visit every two weeks now, and in two weeks it’s every week!!), she said that usually 2^nd time moms deliver early, and the labour is 50% quicker!! Holy smokes I thought! She could see the expression on my face, and told me to just call her as soon as we think we’re in labour, and the games will begin.

Lately, things for J and I have been crazy! Raising a toddler, working full-time and getting ready for winter and a new baby are no easy task. When we get home after work, our 2^nd and favorite job kicks in, playing with and raising our little boy. He’s been a little terrorizer lately, like all 18.5 month old little boys should be; running around the house, eating every hour, messing toys, opening cupboards, throwing diapers in the toilet, tormenting the dogs, etc. Lately, his favorite thing to do is play “rosy” (aka ring-around-the-rosy) with me, and when “we all fall down” he likes to keep me down, grab a blankey and cuddle up with me (ni-ni daddy J ). He’s an all around fun little boy already, and I look forward to each new adventure he takes me on everyday.

About 3 weeks ago, he started waking up in the middle of the night for really no apparent reason. This has been completely unheard of in our house for at least the past four months. O usually sleeps right through the night, and J and I had gotten used to it. 3 weeks ago though, baby girl decided it was time to get her big brother to retrain J and I on not sleeping through the night. I admit, it is something we definitely need to get used to, but O was really giving us a great time with his sleeping through the night. But alas, we realize that shortly we will once again see all of the hours that exist in the middle of the night, when our baby girl joins us, and I couldn’t be more thrilled!

J and I decided to get some holiday shopping done early, and managed to pretty well strike off the things on O’s list that we made! He is pretty well done, and we just have one more thing to send to Santa’s shop! Of course, with baby girl coming sometime in December, we really need to get a move on it and get things ready for the holidays. I put our lights up last night, and we will likely start organizing the decorations so that it isn’t a mad dash to get things up and our house doesn’t look like the Grinch’s during the holiday season. We’ve also tackled the nursery for baby girl, and are really excited for her to make use of the room. J and I had some leftover paint from when we did O’s nursery in our old house, and so we decided to do the same kind of theme (Winnie the Pooh), but a different painting style. Setting up the nursery furniture was way easier this time, and we are slowly but surely getting things ready for our baby girl to move into when she is ready.

All in all, we are ready for the new challenge that will come with having an infant and a toddler. I look forward to holding my daughter for the first time, and seeing O with his own baby sister. J is ready too, and is into the single digit countdown at work!! Getting more pregnant and always beautiful everyday, she looks forward to holding her baby too and growing our family by one. As for the dogs, I know they will be just fine. O and I will be slightly more outnumbered, but will have a blast in a house full of women and estrogen. Love to my family!!

Sorry for the long post. We’ve been busy, and I wanted to let my readers know how things are going as we get so close to a new chapter in our lives.  By the way, I read this online the other day, about Johnson & Johnson products, which we use on O, what do you think? (http://www.forbes.com/sites/amywestervelt/2011/11/01/as-report-reveals-toxic-ingredients-in-baby-shampoo-johnson-johnson-goes-public-with-plans-to-clean-up-products/)

Trust birth,

Blair